I took some time to reflect on the on my life and came up with 38 lessons that I've learned over the years. I think some of these could have dedicated blog posts and I'll provide links if I get around to expanding on some of these life lessons.
Without further ado, here's the list:
- You never feel as old as you are.
- Don’t forget how old you are.
- Friendships take time and work. Don't neglect them.
- It’s hard to make friends as you get older.
- Have a plan. It doesn’t have to be fully thought out; just have a plan.
- Write it down before you forget it.
- Take time to recharge.
- Listen to your body.
- Talk it out.
- It’s OK to not be OK.
- Marriage is work.
- Don’t try to change your spouse.
- Hire a professional.
- Do your research.
- Prepare for emergencies.
- Cultivate a hobby.
- Don’t talk just to fill silence or to hear your own voice.
- Attitudes are contagious. Always keep a positive attitude.
- Know your strengths and weaknesses and how to maximize your strengths and minimize your weaknesses.
- Never stop learning.
- Don’t settle.
- Travel as much as you can.
- Don’t eat your feelings.
- Embrace change.
- Vote in every election.
- It’s OK to say “no”.
- Have a pet.
- Keep your promises.
- Call your mom.
- Make time for exercise.
- Work hard. Be Humble
- Take (calculated) risks.
- Be aware of your surroundings.
- Life is complicated and you’ll never have it figured out.
- Don’t compare yourself to others.
- Competition can be healthy.
- The days are long, but the years are short. - Gretchen Rubin
- Treat others the way you want to be treated.
